Most women associate childbirth with pain. As a result, it gives rise to fear of this natural process. At the same time, few people know that with the right attitude, a woman can feel the highest point of enjoyment – orgasm during childbirth.
Childbirth is a natural process with which the female body perfectly copes. However, the fear of pain programs the mind to unpleasant and painful sensations, not allowing the thought that everything can be different. Orgasm during childbirth is real, but in reality, few women could feel it.
Some Women Are Indeed Able to Experience Orgasm During Childbirth
Although labor is painful, some women experience a sensation similar to an orgasm called “ecstatic childbirth” in the process of giving birth. However, studies show that this happens only with 0.3% of women.
Barry Komisaruk, a professor of psychology at Rutgers University in New Jersey, believes that this is not surprising from the point of view of anatomy. Intensive stimulation of the vagina during childbirth can block pain, and some women may perceive it as sexual sensations. On the other hand, all women are different. The majority of women can only experience pain during labor. In addition, the psychological factor is important. When a woman has an aversion to sexuality, even if she feels pleasant sensations during labor, she may decide that this is inappropriate, and then she will not have an orgasm during childbirth.
Orgasm can also reduce sensitivity to pain. According to statistics, pain threshold reduces in some women after giving birth, but later it comes back to normal. Two areas of the brain that are activated during orgasm are the cortex of the anterior part of the cingulate gyrus and islet. They are also activated during painful experiences. In other words, there is a close connection between pain and pleasure.
Few Words from History
Since the dawn of time, many people associate births with pain, suffering and mortal danger. Girls from the earliest childhood, when they just begin to awaken consciousness, hear their mothers talking to the friends about torment during childbirth. Even if everything went well, then women tell about the tortures of neighbors in the maternity ward. As a result, the fear of childbirth is laid deep in the subconscious. That’s why, women, even knowing that they can always apply painkillers, go to give birth, as if to slaughter. And the consequence of such fear is a just unbearable pain, an increase in the duration of labor, and various complications.
In the Christian world, the relation to the labor is one of the distinctive features of the culture. Labor pains are considered a punishment for all women for the original sin of Eve. Is there any alternative to this? Is it possible to treat childbirth as a joyful event? It turns out that there is nothing unreal in this.
During labor, as during orgasm (natural, not psychological), the muscles of the uterus are reduced. So, it is very important to learn how to “start” orgasmic contractions in preparation for childbirth. That is, the more vaginal orgasms you experience before conception, the easier it will be for you to give birth.
When Does Orgasm During Childbirth Happen?
The orgasm itself during childbirth can be experienced in the period of pangs of childbirth (fetal release). But in order to achieve it, it is necessary that the muscles of the vagina are trained (strong enough, manageable, well stretched).
For the sake of fairness, it should be said that some of the exercises for the preparation for childbirth have been used for a long time – since the middle of the last century – by women of North America and Europe. These are the so-called Kegel exercises. Women can perform Kegel exercises throughout the entire pregnancy. First, from lying or sitting positions, and after 16-18 weeks of pregnancy – only from sitting or standing ones. Keep in mind that, if you want to do any physical or preparatory exercises yourself, do not forget to consult your obstetrician-gynecologist in advance.
Scientists’ Opinion About Orgasm During Childbirth
Scientists note that there used to be a lot of rumors about orgasms during childbirth. However, people were skeptical about it, as about an unverified by science information. In addition, public opinion does not allow accepting the very idea of testing orgasm both socially and morally acceptable.
Drawing on the research of American colleagues, French psychologists set a goal to find out how many women experience orgasm during childbirth. They contacted 956 French midwives of maternity hospitals and asked to fill out questionnaires about childbirth. As a result, it was possible to obtain information about the births of more than 206 thousand women. The researchers asked for information specifically midwives, not doctors, since they often observe the course of labor.
The results of the survey led to the conclusion that orgasm during childbirth does exist. Some parturient women showed orgasmic sensations or told a midwife about them.
Thus, French scientists confirmed the scientific fact of the possibility of orgasm during childbirth with the help of surveys of real midwives who participated in real births.
Orgasm During Childbirth: How Does It Happen?
During childbirth, hormones that lead to orgasm can be released. This will cause a contraction of the muscles in the uterus, which will help the child move through the birth canal. It can also dull labor pain in the parturient woman. Orgasm can also occur during pangs of childbirth if the muscles of the vagina were well trained. For training, there exist well-known Kegel exercises, which are better to perform during the entire pregnancy. Women in India and China have been using these techniques for a long time. European women started practicing such exercises only in the last 15-20 years.
Can All Women Experience Orgasm During Childbirth?
Pleasant birth is an exception rather than a pattern. According to the statistics, only 6 out of 100 women give birth not in agony, but with great pleasure. Skeptic obstetricians say that orgasm goes “from the head”. A woman must deeply love the father of her child, must want the child very much and, of course, should have a very rich imagination that will not fail at the most crucial moment.
Where to Learn to Give Birth with Pleasure?
At present, there are many different specialists in this field who offer to teach techniques, with strict adherence to which you will be able to experience orgasmic sensations and orgasm during childbirth in particular. It is necessary to be cautious about such proposals, and even more careful while paying money for such services.
Keep in mind that no person in the world can give you guarantees that you will certainly have an orgasm during childbirth. Everything depends on your physiology, attitude and many other factors.